I want to know at the earliest possible second. I hate surprises and asexual baby gear. I’m hoping that #1 will be a boy, and don’t care if people think that makes me a bad person. I’m fine with having all girls after that, but as a firstborn son, I would like another firstborn son. If it is a girl I will get over it and love her big time, but I would rather not be disappointed on the day of birth, so I will learn early and have time to adjust to the news. Fortunately my wife wants to learn as well. I believe that 20 weeks is when you can find out. So that is the second big countdown!